Ms. Luvly On Love

Strong is not pretending that everything in life is peaches and cream or holding back your emotions. Strong is learning how to deal with the everyday struggles and learning from them. Strong is knowing when to cry, when to hurt, when to be angry. Strong is knowing when to smile, when to laugh, when to be happy. Strong is knowing how to use all those levels of emotions to build a better soul. Not a ct like you have no emotion. Strong is knowing how to handle a situation with out judging and trying to see things clearly. Strong is knowing when to share your emotions with family and friends. Strong is using the vessel that God gave you to it's fullest. That's what I do everyday in my life and if people don't appreciate that about me than so be it...

Some people get into relationships for the wrong reasons. Everything seems so peaches and cream in the beginning, but once things start to go sour then what? As a women things go sour and we still try to fight for it, knowing that we are in a fight by ourselves. Ladies once you feel it's over it's over. Stop trying to make shit out of nothing. I say this from experience. Think about when you are in a situation and you don't like how it's going. You feel in your gut that it's not right but you continue on trying to make it work. Why the hell is that. Why not just cut your loses and keep it moving instead of suffering. That's like I tell people all the time, how it is before you get married is how it's going to be after. It you argue all the time in your relationship and there is no communication then that's how it's going to be. People don't change and if they do it's rare. I'm not going to say all because some people only have to mature.