Giving Up Yourself For Love

I really think that the biggest mistake that women make in their life is giving up who they are for who they love. We lose sight of ourselves because we focus too much on what the other person wants. Whatever happened to the day where you could support and love the other person and still focus on yourself at the same time? Those days are now gone. If you cant be yourself in a relationship then that's not the relationship tat you should be in. Don't lose yourself because of love. If that's the case then that's not love. Put your wants first. Always... 

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