BEDROOM RELATIONSHIPS!!!



What is a bedroom relationship do you ask? Well let me explain it to you...
A bedroom relationship is exactly what it says. A relationship base in the bedroom only. 
Ever met a guy and you really like him but the only thing you can get him to do is come over your house and that's it. He not available to you to go out on a "date". He's only available to come over, eat your food, watch your TV and fuck. That's a bedroom relationship. It has no substance and it doesn't go further then your house. 

There are a lot of people that swear  they have a great relationship because they spend a lot of time together. Awww that's sweet. Then I'll ask, "So what do y'all do, where do y'all go?" Crickets! lol
They don't go anywhere, they don't do anything, they don't travel outside of their city. The most traveling they do together is run to the store to buy food to eat in from of the TV. lol 

If every time you see someone and it is just at your house and y'all end the night in the bedroom, then you have a bedroom relationship. If he's been out all day without you and he only comes to your house on the late night to eat fuck and sleep, then that's a bedroom relationship. If you make suggestions to go out and he says he's busy, but he has enough time to come sit in your house to watch your cable, eat your food and give you a night cap, that's a bedroom relationship. If he has a big family event and tells you about it and don't invite you then ends up at your house after to relax eat your food watch your TV and fuck, that's a bedroom relationship. 

You can talk about life, dreams, goals and aspirations all day long, but if it don't matter if you can't see them happening because the only time y'all spend together is at your house.  

If you don't know where he lives and you only see him a few times a month but its only at your house, then its a bedroom relationship. 

I can go on and on with examples all with you ending up in YOUR bedroom getting fucked. Its still all points to a bed room relationship.

Occasionally you might meet a guy that invites you to his place to fuck but then you know you are laying in other women's fluids, so um.... naw.... But it still will only be a bedroom relationship.

Raise your standards ask for more and don't accept less. If you notice that the only thing he wants to do with you is eat watch TV and fuck then you know its going to be a bedroom relationship. Netflix and Chill is just the catchy phrase for it. But hey if you're cool with a dude not doing shit with you then by all means continue your bedroom relationships...


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