Ms. Luvly On Love

I want to welcome myself back. It's almost been a year since I lasted posted a blog. I just think I kind of lost my drive to write. I have had a lot of things going on in my life that I needed to tend to. I'm going to make an effort to try and post something once a week or once every other week, just to get things up and running again. I am going to reach out to my followers on Instagram for help with topics. My Instagram is @iammsluvly . I just need some topics that I can write about. But the only problem is I will probably hurt some feelings if certain people decide to read my blog. But I honestly dont care because they are not people I fuck with. Soooooo let the fun begin... Ms. Luvly

What is a bedroom relationship do you ask? Well let me explain it to you... A bedroom relationship is exactly what it says. A relationship base in the bedroom only.  Ever met a guy and you really like him but the only thing you can get him to do is come over your house and that's it. He not available to you to go out on a "date". He's only available to come over, eat your food, watch your TV and fuck. That's a bedroom relationship. It has no substance and it doesn't go further then your house.  There are a lot of people that swear  they have a great relationship because they spend a lot of time together. Awww that's sweet. Then I'll ask, "So what do y'all do, where do y'all go?" Crickets! lol They don't go anywhere, they don't do anything, they don't travel outside of their city. The most traveling they do together is run to the store to buy food to eat in from of the TV. lol  If every time you see som...

I know this is a difficult topic to talk about and I know that a lot of women will not appreciate this, but this is actually more to help women than men. So let me begin... In my experience in this relationship world (which right now I can't stand lol) I have learned a lot of mistakes that men make that get them caught up in drama because lack of knowledge on how to cheat.  Guys cheat for whatever their reason and still stay in a relationship and call it love. But I never understood why a man would cheat on his lady and not get rid of all evidence. Do they not realize by now that a lot of women are a bunch of snoops and they will always find out what's going on. Or that a woman's intuition is really strong. I just want to knock a man up against his head or shake some sense in them. Wake them up so that they can see that their reckless actions are doing a lot of harm to a lot of women which is causing a huge amount of hurt that comes back full circle. So I...

Lies There is an epidemic going on where no matter how small the situation men lie and they lie easy. Why is it so hard for a man to tell the truth? So, you are interested in this guy. You have great conversations, laugh, joke and talk on the phone for hours. You start catching feeling for this guy. All of a sudden you are feeling that he is the one. You have so much in common, how can you not feel that way. You two have even taken the relationship to another level and had sex. You are thinking he is such a great guy, darn near flawless. Then all of a sudden BOOM!!! You find out that he just had a baby. Then you start to calculate the time spent to the time it takes to conceive and give birth and the math doesn't add up. "So you men to tell me all this time that I have given you, you had a baby on the way?" This is the question you ask yourself. How did this man go without letting this woman know that he had a child on the way? Is he already in a relationship? W...

"We are just friends"... says who? This is the escape of relationships nowadays. No title no explanation. Excuses for people to do what they want and still reap the rewards. Friendships dont involve sex. That's not friendship so people stop putting that title on it. It's not even "Homie Lover Fried" that doesnt even really exist. Lets just say what it really is... Using. Real friends dont partake in "relationship" behaviors. You dont see a woman having sex with her girlfriends or a man having sex with his homies and saying "Oh we just "friends".Ok on some rare occasion that happens but lets keep it real. This s a lame excuse for people to use to get what they want out of a person without putting a commitment to it so that they can continue to have sex with multiple people. I find it sad and rather disgusting that people use so easily. Then expect the person not to feel some type of way or try to stake claim. How can you continue to e...

I haven't wrote a blog in a LONG time, but today I was inspired to do so. So here goes... I titled this blog Love because that's basically what it is about. I responded to a post today on Facebook about love hurting. The person wrote, "Be careful who you love because love is pain and it might be a pain that aspirin cant make go away." Nice try at explaining hurt and love but it was a no go. I told them love is not hurt. I really don't think they comprehended what I was trying to explain. They said you can love someone so much that it hurts and I told them that's infatuation. Then they said that they knew someone that broke up with a person and hurt for a long time after. I told them that's different than hurting in a relationship. Of course everything got twisted. They seem to get offended with my "Advice" when I actually wasn't offering up any. Too funny to me. Anyway so I am writing this blog to break it down from Ms. Luvly...

This is a question that I always ask. "Who Really Is Single?" So here is how I got to that question again.... Yesterday I had a instant message conversation with that guy on Facebook. He had just sent me a friend request. About 20 mins after I accepted the request he instant messaged me. It caught me off guard because it was very fast. So we was having a conversation and he asked me was I single. The Big Question! So my response back to him was, "Who really is single nowadays." So there for that gave him neither a Yes or No answer. I told him, "I'm not married". So he responded, "Ok." So all last night I was up thinking about it. I was asking myself if I was completely single. That answer is No. Honestly I don't think any adult nowadays is truly single. If they are it is rare. There is always someone out there that can claim you and say, "He/She is mine." For instance, if a man is dating a woman and he is having sexual enco...